“Let your ‘Yes’ be yes and your ‘No,’ no.” - Matthew 5:37
There comes a time in your life when you must learn to honor your own boundaries, even if it means disappointing others. For years, you may have poured yourself out, sacrificing time, energy, and even rest to accommodate the needs of those around you. But in this season, it’s important to understand that saying no is not a sign of pride or unkindness; it is a declaration of self-respect.
You might be a manager, a pastor, a parent, or a student - but just know that there is nothing wrong with setting boundaries. The Lord does not call you to wear yourself thin, but to serve wisely, with balance and love.
This doesn’t mean you will stop being helpful. You love to help others, even when they cannot give anything in return. The Lord calls you to serve one another, and it is a joy to do so. But serving should never become a license for others to misuse your willingness. True service flows out of love, not from pressure or manipulation.
Protecting your peace is just as important as helping others. The greatest act of kindness you can offer is to show up whole, spiritually, emotionally, and physically - not worn out and resentful.
Setting boundaries does not mean you have changed to becoming unhelpful; it simply means you have grown to value yourself, while still choosing to walk in love and serve others as God calls you to.
Prayer:
Heavenly Father, thank You for reminding me that my worth is not measured by how much I do for others, but by who I am in You. Help me to serve with a willing heart, but also with wisdom and balance. Teach me to honour my boundaries without guilt, and to walk in both love and truth. May my “yes” and my “no” always bring glory to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen
